After Pulse: Lindsay Kincaide

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Lindsay Kincaide is an Orlando Florida mental health clinician and an HIV, LGBT advocate. She volunteered at the Center on Tuesday nights and the volunteers  became known as Team Tuesday. After work they would go to Karaoke night at Pulse.

She loved Pulse. A friend dealt poker at Pulse. Barbara Poma had named the club after her brother who passed away from aids, and she was always open to local agencies coming into the club to do fundraisers.

She started with front desk work at the Center but wanted to get involved as an HIV tester. She did the work to become a certified HIV tester in the state of Florida. She as also a case manager for low income people living with HIV, Aids. She was promoted to become the Center’s HIV program director. She built the program up adding Hep-C and STI testing and she expanded mental health services.

She vividly recalls June 11, the day before the Pulse tragedy. She was running a support group for partners of individuals how have come out as trans-gender. She was running that support group on Saturday mornings. It was a beautiful day. She felt great and went shopping at Publix for the weekend. The plan was to have mimosas on Sunday. She and her partner went to bed early that night, about 10pm. She considered the idea of going out, maybe to Southern Nights, but she was tired.

She woke up the next morning to the text messages, “Are you OK?” “Did you go to Pulse?” A text message at 2Am read, “Are you at Pulse?” from a friend. She assumed her friend wanted her to meet at Pulse. Then she got a text from a best friend in Atlanta. Then she sought out the news at about 8AM on social media. What the hell is going on? She jumped out of bed and woke her partner up, “There has been a shooting at Pulse.” She realized she had to go to the Center. That was her first instinct. Her partner was nervous, “What if they decide to go to the center and begin shooting?” At that point Lindsay didn’t care. She needed to be there. They both went.

They got coffee and immediately drove to the Center and they were some of the first to arrive. No one was prepared for this. The Center started putting information online via Facebook. People started to arrive. Water, Klenex, toilet paper, paper towels, coffee and food poured into the Center. They moved the TV to the front room so that the news could come in.

About mid-morning about 12 councilors went into the back and stated to figure out how to mobilize. They needed to be in the community. A clipboard was passed around but that wasn’t going to work. Someone suggested Google Docs to get organized. A spreadsheet was created. Lindsay began to sign people up, getting their contact information. The Zebra Coalition right across the street donated their crisis hotline. People were sent to the hotel across the street from ORMC where the families were hoping to hear news about their loved ones. They also needed an off site location. The Center was getting insanely crowded. That off site location became Christ’s Church on Robinson.

The Google Doc which she ran had contact information and then tabs for the different sites and different shifts. For the first day, Sunday, She tried to schedule people. It was too much for her to handle alone. She was there until 11Pm on Sunday. She decided to just put the spreadsheet out into the world, and let people sign up virtually. She added new tabs as needed. The document was editable. It went out on all the Facebook pages that counselors are a part of. Her phone blew up with call from all over the country. She was texting, e-mailing and calling out information to everyone to sign in on the Google Doc. She was up until 2AM. Over 700 people signed up. There were about 1000 interactions between June 12 and July 4th.

By Monday they were going to the LGBT clubs, Parliament House, Southern Nights, Savoy, Stonewall, because that is where the community gathers when they need support. That is our safe space. Councilors were at the clubs until midnight. The mental health community wrapped their arm around the LGBT community and said, we are here. They provided support and connected people to counseling. Two Spirit began offering services for free and the Center got their counseling mobilized. Another Google Doc was created where she asked all who had signed up, what they were willing to offer the community. That document went to what became the United Orlando Assistance Center and to the Center as a counseling resource guide.

 

Phil Raia: A Look Back at Stonewall

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Phil Raia is an activist. 18 transsexual women of color were murdered and that is not being addressed. Transsexuals were barred from the military under the Trump administration. Religious rights were being put in the forefront ahead of human rights. The country was founded on the separation of church and state. When religious leaders preach sermons of hate and are embraced by the political elite that is concerning.

He went to NYC to attend a protest where about 50,000 people marched from Christopher Street up to Central Park. The main Pride Parade was a commercial enterprise and he preferred to be with old friends who raised their voices against injustice. The event was in honor of the 50th anniversary of Stonewall. He knows some of the people who were a part of Stonewall. Stonewall was a raid on a club. He had been there many times. He lived across from the club on Christopher Street.

Three of the windows of his apartment faced Christopher street and he felt like he was on the runway. He was not in the Stonewall when the event actually happened. There are still questions about who threw the shot glass or who threw the brick. We may never really know exactly what transpired there. The reality is that the cops entered, which was happening more and more. There was a political rationale behind these raids. At the time you could loose your job if you were found to be in a gay establishment. It was something that happened at the right time because of the right circumstances. In the late 50s there was McCarthyism. Then came a time of thinking outside the box, followed by the peace movement, the women’s right movement, the civil rights movement. These were the bedrock behind the Stonewall movement. Really the part of the Stonewall occurrence that was most important wasn’t the event itself, it was the people who came around the next day and communed with those more directly effected by it. It was the awakening that they were oppressed.  The Gay Liberation Front (GLF) grew giving the movement the lift it needed.