Far To Heavy was a one woman show by Melanie Bailey at this year’s Orlando International Fringe Festival. Melanie began the show with plenty of laugh out loud moments. Gradually she weaved in resurfacing memories that she has learned to live with. Those memories might surface at the most unexpected times.
This was Melanie’s first one woman. The show was genuine and offered the harsh realities of trauma mixed with lighthearted laughter. Everyday memories can become overwhelming if you can’t learn to laugh at them.
On stage were moving boxes with one labeled “Grief” in sharpie. I was getting prepared to move all my studio possessions out of storage into an apartment in downtown Orlando, so I was very familiar with a life boxed up on hold. My traumas may very well be in the remaining 3 boxes that I have yet to unpack. So many of the boxes I had to move were far to heavy. I tried to push one box and instead of it moving, my feet kept slipped on the floor boards. It wasn’t until I wedged my foot against a wall that the box reluctantly was forced forward.
On top of three boxes on stage was a bingo spinning barrel. Melanie played Trauma Lottery with the audience, and the goal was to show that the hidden pain we all have, may be what connects us all the most. For a show covering such serious topics, it didn’t ever feel overwhelming. Melanie had a great knack of mixing the trauma we all share with humor and reminding us that sharing such moments helps connect us all.
Melanie is a five-time Orlando Fringe award winner, so she has experience knowing what will resonate with an audience. We are never meant to carry all our pain in life alone. Being able to share and be honest about our experiences helps us heal. By sharing her trauma, Melanie may have helped the audience someday face their own traumas which were swept away into the recesses of their mind. The show cannot resolve the issues we all face, since we are all so unique, but by sharing her experiences, she helped us realize that we are not alone in our pain. By leaving us laughing, she offered the best medicine that there is.